Leadership Coaching
for male identified &/or socialized leaders
Confidently Lead with a Clear Mind and Heart
As a male in today's society, I have recognized the social conditioning that trains to act with more 'fire' than 'water', and this imbalance can make it challenging to confidently navigate the intersections of decisions, communication, and emotions as a leader.
In truth, a healthy masculine leader is balanced and harnesses their personal power by tuning into their 'watery' emotional intelligence and creates an empowered environment for their team to get better and bring the collective vision to life.
So that is why I’m here to help you develop as a leader that is CALM and CLEVER with CARE - that brings your vision from ether to earth through your own personal flare.
​(Basically don't be the scorching heat of Death Valley - be the warm sunshine of Pacific Beach, San Diego)
I am here to equip, empower, and elevate emotionally intelligent male leaders.
I believe men are ready and willing to answer the call of being the balanced healthy masculine leaders that the world wants and needs.
You know you can show up better...
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The pressure and stress has you missing meals, skipping self-care, & not being present with your family
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You are doubting if you are chasing the right things, or if what you are doing is actually worth it
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You are being reactionary and sharp in your communication, and then feel bad afterwards
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You are bothered that you don't sense you actually know your team
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You are being called into a new or greater leadership position and are feeling stretched interpersonally
Harness your Personal Power as an
Emotionally Intelligent Leader
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Recognize real time when you are triggered, tune into your core feelings and needs, then respond consciously and confidently in a way that has you thinking - whoa, did I just do that? Hell yeah!
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Initiate and guide conversations that are emotionally charged in a way that has you sighing in relief
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Face conflict confidently with go to frameworks that allow you to feel in your power & compassion
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Trust yourself in choosing the throat gulping decisions
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Develop your natural leadership style that tracks with your character
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Witness your team enjoying working together and spontaneously bringing new solutions forward
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Have a pulse of how your people are generally doing, while having healthy boundaries
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Create a "courageous and compassionate space" for you and your team to get better
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Be present with your team and your family while "doing less" which includes "being" more You
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Manage the stresses of leadership responsibilities and life
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Verbalize discomforts and contextualize emotions with a professional sounding board
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Overcome emotional thought patterns to empower your leadership
You Are Called to Lead & Care
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Called to lead and wanting a guide. You sense your natural leadership potential, and you want support optimizing it with your unique flavor, melody, and flare.
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Service-driven and enjoy helping others. Yes, the money matters in keeping the lights on, and what really energizes you is the pride you have in the service you provide to your team / community.
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Conscientious with the way you show up and lead. This shows by the way you reflect on how you addressed that challenge but don't feel great about, and want to find a better way to show up... You care.
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Aware of and appreciate mind + body + spirit well-being. This fits in any spiritual beliefs, and is based in the sense of knowing there is more to life than meets the eye, and that it is on your side.
Primary Leadership Frameworks
Emotional Stability + Effective Communication + Timely Solutions
"The centering exercises with Kyle were different for me at first but felt great afterwards. They got me in the right mindset to rock and roll!
Kyle's methodologies helped me look at things differently and ultimately come to conclusions that I wouldn’t have on my own.
I recommend you bring your whole self. Kyle is a good dude and will be respectful and honest as you verbalize discomforts and contextualize your emotions."
Shane (he/him) Co-Founder + Head of Product + Angel Investor + Husband + Father
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Coaching fit & strategy: Your support begins with a complimentary call where we will clarify where you are right now, where you want to be, and identify the initial actions you can take.
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Coaching profile intake: Once we've verified we make great partners we complete the logistics of contract agreement, invoice payment, and you complete a thorough wholistic intake that will help me support you in this partnership as best as possible.
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Vedic lifestyle optimizations: We continue our work in scheduled sessions with focus on your mindset Attention and Actions that will support your Intention, utilizing approachable changes.
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Emotional CARE: From there we approach this work knowing you must know what is really needed at the core and emotionally CARE for that so you can successfully lead.
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CALM Communication: Next naturally grow into learning how to use the CALM framework to communicate confidently in conversations that have potential for conflict or defensiveness.
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CLEVER solutions: From a CARE-d for and CALM state of being we organically develop into learning how CLEVER helps you solve the problems that are holding you or your team back.
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These strategies are complimentary and rhythmic, naturally empowering each other the more they are practiced. Supplemental support on vision, organization, etc. is as needed.
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Throughout our work, we keep in mind your personal and relational circumstances, and I support you with approachable recommendations to optimize and maintain your lifestyle for work-life balance from a holistic perspective.
What you can expect our work to look like
Emotionally intelligent leadership will help you to...
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Solidify your business idea, purpose, vision, and values.
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Confidently make significant decisions to propel your business in your vision.
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Explore expansive possibilities as a creative brainstorming partner.
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Navigate partnership and personnel challenges.
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Practice expansive beliefs and empowering emotions that will amplify your leadership.
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Build a team that will be with you for the long haul because they are invested in the vision.
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Retain your talented employees who are desiring holistic fulfillment and support from their employment that fuels their passion, pleasure, prosperity, and peace.
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Increase funding and revenue because you're speaking to investors and consumers from your higher wisdom and passionate heart, through your regulated mind.
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Decrease spending and overhead because you have the collaborative clarity and buy in amongst your team to optimize strategies, processes, and techniques for getting the job done the best way possible.
Rest Assured with Kyle as Your Steering Partner
Joe (he/him) - Director at Fortune 50 company | Husband | Father
Highlights of my leadership experience
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14 years of professional leadership experience in sports and academia
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Executive Coaching training with Manual Coaching - 2022
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Outstanding Staff Award at Cal Poly Humboldt - 2020 (pictured)
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Co-leadership member of Arcata Men's Group - 2017 to present
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Emotional Intelligence training with Six Seconds - 2016
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Compassionate communication training based on NVC - 2015
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Equine leadership training with Mearas - 2014
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Masters of Science in Coaching at Ohio University - 2013
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Teammate voted captain at university, junior-college, & high school levels
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Consistent feedback appreciating the safety I create in relationships that are up, down, and lateral
Apply for 1:1 Leadership Coaching
Leadership Coaching is available per session or in a package.
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Pricing is offered at a sliding scale determined by the package you chose and your financial situation.
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Submit your responses to apply and we will follow up with you to schedule your complimentary meeting to make sure we are an aligned partnership.